Bernard Darrell Crow Jr., 53, a loving and caring husband, a devoted father known affectionately as Pops, and a steady, protective presence for all who loved him, passed away on February 25th, 2026, at Sanford Hospital, surrounded by loved ones.

Visitation will be from 5:00 to 7:00 pm, Wednesday, March 4, 2026, at Miller Funeral Home, 507 S. Main, Sioux Falls, SD.

Funeral Services will be held at 10:30 am, Thursday, February 5, 2026, at Calvary Episcopal Cathedral (downstairs), 500 S Main Ave, Sioux Falls, SD.

Bernard was born on July 17, 1972 to Bernard Crow Sr and Phyllis LaPointe in Winner, South Dakota.

He began his journey as a young man at McCrossin's Boys Ranch, where he joined a wagon train that carried him across the whole state of Texas. That adventure sparked his lifelong love for the Dallas Cowboys-.DC4L!!

For more than 20 years, Bernard worked as a concrete finisher in Sioux Falls,SD and the surrounding area, known for his dedication, strength, and pride in a hard day's work.

Family was the center of Bernard's world. As a husband, he loved Wanda with a steady, unwavering devotion. As a father, he brought comfort, laughter, wisdom, and stability. He was the rock of his home — the one people leaned on, the one who brought steadiness when life felt uncertain. He had a habit of telling people he loved them first at the start of every phone call, a small gesture that showed the size of his heart.

People who met Bernard remembered his strong, steady handshake — firm, warm, and full of character. He'd flash that familiar smile and say, "Give me one," almost before your hand was even out.

Bernard was an artist at heart, he enjoyed drawing, listening to music and dancing. He brought joy and laughter wherever he went.. He loved fishing and being near the water - a place where he found peace, reflection, and a quiet connection to the world around him. He also loved playing baseball, and in his younger years he was a fast-pitch catcher.

He held a deep love for his family — his mother, his kids, his brothers, his sisters, and his extended relatives— whose closeness and loyalty shaped his life. And nothing brought him more joy than his grandkids, each one holding a special place in his heart. Their laughter, their visits, and the way they lit up when they saw him were among his greatest blessings. He cherished every moment he spent with them.

At the end of his life, He chose to donate his heart and lungs, saving two lives so that they can live on. In that final act, he gave the greatest gift a person can give — the gift of life. His legacy now lives not only in the memories of those who loved him, but also in the lives he helped save.

Bernard's story is one of resilience, love, protection, and purpose. Though he has completed his earthly journey, the imprint he left — in the hearts of his family, in the memories of his friends, and in the quiet moments he shaped — will continue to live on. He will be remembered with gratitude, love, and deep respect by all who were blessed to be part of his journey.

Survivors include his wife, Wanda Crow, sons, Kaleb Iron Heart, Austin Crow, Joshua Goodbird; daughters, Shyleah Goodbird, Monique Crow, Camille Crow; mother, Phyllis LaPointe; and his brother, Kurt LaPointe. He was preceded in death by his father, Bernard Crow, Sr, daughter, Monique Crow; brothers, Terrance LaPointe and Richard LaPointe.